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How to motivate yourself to approach women? Well, you can use negative or positive motivation. Negative definitely works better. It is just how we humans function. I will give you some examples of both.

First of all, let me tell you just how habits work. By biological hard wiring, we are creatures of habit. That is how we function. We do not control habits as much as they control us. Make peace with this fact and seek to create productive habits. Scientists have proven that it takes 21 to 30 days to create a new habit and keep it going. We are going to go for the bigger number. So, we will be thinking in terms of a month here. So, you will be approaching women for at least a month.

Here is an example for positive motivation. Think of a reward that you want. It can be a TV, a video game console, a new computer or anything you really want. It can be something smaller too. It can be a dinner or simply a short trip somewhere. You make a commitment to yourself. By the way, it is best that you make a commitment to a friend too. You tell them that you will have to approach a certain number of women a day. If you don’t do it, you don’t get the reward. That is great positive motivation to get you to approach women.

Fear always works best! That is why this motivation is going to be negative. You will have to approach a certain number of women a day or you will have to lose something valuable. Give your friend some money up front. If you don’t have money, give them something else that you wouldn’t want to lose. That way, they keep you accountable. If you fail, they keep it.

Enjoy the journey!

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