Dating More by Acting Like a Nice Guy



You have a girlfriend now, after months of pursuing and steady dating. You worked hard at making a good impression, and might have even transformed yourself into a real nice guy. Good behavior doesn’t stop the moment she becomes your girlfriend. Both of you might even get married. But you have to remember that good behavior goes on, even well into married life.

You would always want respect to be a mutual thing. If you find yourself in a group gathering with guys trash talking their girlfriends or wives, don’t join in the talk. No name-calling and trash talking. After all, you wouldn’t want your girlfriend doing the same to you when she’s with her own friends?

Keep private matters private. When you’ve got something important to tell her about a sensitive issue and you’re in a public place or are among friends, go find a private spot. The worst thing that can happen is your talk doesn’t go well and you argue in public. So wait until you get home or until you get a quiet corner before you do some serious talking.

Keep your eyes on your girl. Sure, you see that hot, sexy woman walk nearby, but remember that you’ve committed to relationship. Be attentive and show that she’s the only woman in your world.

Be loyal! If you’re going to a dinner or a club with her girl friends, don’t leave her side. You’re part of a couple now, in a serious relationship, so say goodbye to flirting with other women. She’ll love you more if she feels secure in your relationship.

Be generous with your compliments. Shower her with gifts. Never fail to remember special occasions. Greet her on special days, even on ordinary days. She’ll be in love with your for the rest of her days if you shower her with attention and with your thoughtful ways.

Be the gentleman you always were. Now that she’s a potential lifelong partner, there’s no reason for you to stop helping her to your seat, or opening doors for her when you’re ahead. You’ll be her lifelong hero.

The point is you have to want to be the best man you could be, and that includes treating your lady properly. Your actions reflect who you are, so treat her well, and be the best guy you can be.

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