Don’t Give Up, Nice Guys – You Will Win in the Long Run at Getting Dates



Having a great date night shouldn’t be impossible, so long as you follow the basics, like proper grooming and proper language. You’ve got greater chances of having an unforgettable date night if you follow some basic rules.

Preparing and planning for an event or occasion, a date night in this case, will always do you good. Plan where to take her so you’ll have an idea how much you’ll spend. Make preparations. Think about how you’ll look like, and take extra time in grooming yourself before you go out.

Shower, put on clean clothes, brush your teeth, and spray on some cologne, just a little so you won’t knock your date out with the way you smell. You don’t have to put on a power suit and risk feeling uncomfortable the whole night because of your stiff shirt. Make sure you wear neatly-pressed but comfy clothes so you’re relaxed the whole night. There’s nothing like confidence in a guy to make you attractive to women.

When you look good, you feel good too. You’ll have a more relaxed time because you’re more confident now that you made some effort in looking good. Women get attracted by men who exude confidence and who know what they’re talking about.

Do a little background check on her, but don’t overdo it lest you be called a stalker. Find out if she likes going to classy restos, or prefers pizza and beer, or likes to hang out in cafes. These little things would surprise her no doubt, but would be in your favor.

A woman wants to feel she’s safe and secure when she’s with a guy. There’s nothing like making her feel secure in your company. When you go out on a date, make her feel she’s the only woman in the room. Don’t let your gaze stray to other girls in the bar. There’s nothing worse than making her feel you’d rather be with someone else.

Be a gentleman. Treat her with respect, hold the door for her, and open the car door when she gets in. Gentlemanly behavior never gets old. It might seem like a small gesture, but these actions don’t go unnoticed, even for the independent woman.

A lot can happen on date night, but if you do these tips, you increase your chances of getting your date much impressed.

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