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Kosmo here, Are you ready to learn how we Master Pick Up Artists number close beautiful women?

I wanted to share some information with you guys on how to get a girl’s phone number and execute it correctly. I do a whole seminar on phone game and building social status. But for right now, I wanted to jump start you guys with some tips and techniques that will help you get solid phone numbers that really count and turn these numbers into much more than just getting that girl’s number and her never picking up the phone.

For starters, you need to always be adding value to the conversation. Before you even get her number, you have to make her laugh, give her positive emotions, teach her a funny handshake, play a game with the group. Anything other than asking her questions about her life, something most guys do. You have to be in a “giving” mindset and not a “getting” mindset.

Why? Because she is just talking about herself and it should be the other way round. You should be telling her why you are a high value male, and you should be getting her used to you giving and giving instead of getting. So when you do my number close, it makes sense with what you have already been doing. The Second Step is you are going to tell her that she is super cool and to take down your number and you will GIVE her your number.

You have to get her used to you leading the conversation and teaching her new things about herself and the world around her. The average frustrated male will ask to get the girl’s number. There are a few things you’re doing wrong when you do that.

Firstly, you never ask, you should just tell her confidently what she should be doing. If you’re assertive it will make her think that it is the polite thing to do and will make her feel like she isn’t breaking any social rules. The next mistake is actually asking for the girl’s number.

She certainly shouldn’t ever feel like she is giving you something, or doing you some favor. It should feel like you are giving her a gift by giving her your phone number. You are very picky and selective of the women you give your number out to, and you thought she’d be cool enough to hang out with and you let her have it. That is the affirmation you need to have.

Now for the most important part. This is the thing that makes the woman think that there is no other agenda and that her number doesn’t necessarily lead to sex or a boring phone call.

The reason you are even exchanging numbers is because you have an event you’d like her to come to. That’s right gentlemen; you’ll only be getting her number because you’d like to invite her to your event, BBQ, concert, or whatever event you’re planning.

It really isn’t important what type of event you have, what is important is that you actually have an event to invite her to. It shows her that you have a life, and social connections. Now the number has just become a bridge to the next meeting.

Understand? Most guys do this wrong, trust me I see it all the time when I go out with all my girls. Guys will be hanging out trying to get with the girl at the club, and everything is going good. Then the guy says “let me get your phone number and we should hang out or something”. The girl is thinking, well we are hanging out right now, so what is the purpose of getting my number? She feels like she is giving away money, she feels confused about WHY you really want her number.

What you need to do is satisfy her mind’s curiosity as to why you are doing everything you’re doing. Then you will get the girl to work and invest in you to get your number. You should make her jump through your hoops to see if she complies. Then you know that the phone number is solid and that she will not flake.

If she does, than I am almost 100 percent sure the phone number will turn into a second meet up and hanging out at other social gatherings together. I will usually tell her to do the following things so she can work to get my number, and if she is willing to work to get my number than she will most likely pick up my calls or answer my texts.

The process goes like this.

A) Take down my number

B) Text me so I can be sure it’s you

C) Actually tell me a secret or something funny.

D) That was funny; I’m going to text you a secret about me

E) Ok I have to call this really dorky girl real quick. I think she’s cute, let’s see if she answers. (Call her and wait for her to pick up) Hi, it’s me. That really gorgeous Latino guy you have a crush on. I thought we’d get that first awkward phone call out of the way. It gets in between so many would be couples. So when you call me tomorrow it won’t be weird or anything. So let’s get all that out of the way now. (Just stare at her, usually she’ll begin laughing)

F) Now this goes along with the last bullet point, if she doesn’t pick up the call. What I do is, I listen to her voicemail and I leave her a message and in the middle of me talking I will hand the phone over to the girl (It’s her phone but she doesn’t know that) and tell her to leave a funny message for your friend..

So these are some examples of what I like to do to make her work to get your number and testing her to see if she is willing to jump through your hoops.

I think that this is a very important aspect of social dynamics and how to get a phone number when you just meet a girl for the first time at any social gathering. Here is an example of one of my phone number closes that I did. It ended up in some very interesting activities a couple days later; I will leave it at that.

Ex.

Kosmo: What are your plans for tomorrow? Me and some friends are heading to Opera. My friend is celebrating his film release. You should tag along so I can introduce you to some beautiful people and show you some new dance moves. (Notice how I’m always giving)

Ashley: Ok sounds like a plan. Besides, my friends were hinting about going out after class.

Kosmo: Ok get my number down. We’re also having a BBQ this weekend. You need to taste my burgers they are out of this world. My grandma just showed me how to steak, we’ll see how that works.

Ashley: That’s so cute. Okay, what is your number? And I want to see how good your burgers really are; because I think I could take you out in a heartbeat.

Kosmo: 2333332323, I usually don’t give my number out to anyone, so here, shoot me a text so I know it’s you. Text me a funny secret about yourself. But for real Ashley, I honestly think you are super cool and you should invite some of your friends to come along and hang out, girls, boys, dogs, cats, doesn’t matter.

Ashley: I’m probably going to bring a girlfriend. Did you get my text?

Kosmo: No. Where is my phone?

Ashley: I think it’s in your pocket.

Kosmo: Yea it is how do you know? You grabbed my ass while I wasn’t looking didn’t you?

Ashley: When I grab your ass you’ll know it ok?

Kosmo: I got your message. That is pretty funny!

Ashley: Ok now it’s your turn.

Kosmo: Ok I’ll tell you my old nickname. I don’t want to be rude my friends. And if I hear you told anyone my secret I’m going to have to put you in time out. I’ll text you the information for the party Saturday.

I’ll give her a kiss, and roll off for a bit. I’ll enter the set again and keep talking to her. I’ll also text her to keep her used to us interacting and conversing.

I hope this information will take your infield game to the next level. I’m highly confident that this gambit will turn that girl’s number into the next meeting.

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