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Passionate love stories are something we all are searching for. The question is: Why are we looking for them? Are we looking for just another high?

I don’t know, I don’t think anyone has a clear answer to this. However what I do know is that while you should definitely look for love, enjoy the high, but you should also know that the high will probably end at some point.

What happens next? It depends. Passionate love stories tend to end. Love stories do not need to end, just the passion part of it can transform.

What is the thing it will transform to is determined by chance and also a bit by choice.

It can grow to a totally another level, to a level, where is peace, love and knowing that this is how it should be.

Then again, it can just end. When it does, usually the reason is that people have too different characters. This is the thing that it can boil down to.

Because of that, I believe, it is important to look at the person before anything else. Before the social conditioning, whether this person is a doctor or a magician and also before outer appearance.

Looks play a big part while choosing a mate, no doubt, but we should also see the person behind it. Because looks is the most temporary part of that person, character is permanent. And you may end up spending a lot of time with that person.

So, by all means, go for the passion, enjoy the passionate love stories and live your life, but also keep the wisdom that everything is temporary with you. This enables you to stay in balance and in that way you are able to enjoy it more, because you are less afraid of loosing it.

Fear is something that life does not reward. Life rewards courage and wisdom. When we accept the temporary nature of things, especially passionate love stories, fear will start to fade and we will be able to enjoy life more and we will start to look for the enjoyment more.

Charlie Mai is passionate about love, feel free to read his thoughts about how to get over someone and also thoughts about love stories.