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Well, I’m a woman so I do have some relationship advice for men, but I’m not really completely sure the men out there will really like it! Being a woman, you won’t hear me say that many of us are nuts or that we all love shoes and chocolate (a number of us do, but just like men, we’re all different and don’t appreciate being all lumped in the same category as every other woman on the earth).

Would you like it if you were dumped into the same category as every other man that your girlfriend went out with? So, my first bit of relationship advice for men is to get to know each woman in your life. Treat her such as the individual she actually is and not some mix between a mother and a adult movie star. It sometimes may seem like men almost never see women as individuals but as some fantasy figure If you’re doing this, you ought to knock it off.

Deal with your girlfriend or wife like you would your friends… only better. Respect her, have confidence in her. If you truly can’t trust her because she has demonstrated she is not trustworthy than maybe you should just end the partnership. It’s not good to remain in a relationship with somebody you can’t trust.

Don’t assume your girlfriend or wife to understand your reason for being so unwilling to discuss what’s going on in your mind. That’s a very common problem. It’s true that women tend to be more communicative, men are likely to have more of a “I’ll handle it myself” kind of thing. Women are built to want to make things better and so are men. We simply do it in different ways. Women like you to talk about your problems and open up to them. It can make them feel like you trust them and love them.

Men try and “fix” things. Sometimes a woman may not appreciate to have a guy try to “fix” things, after all, they are smart and capable and they can do it them self. What they often do like is to feel like their guy cares about what they are going through. So, if your girlfriend or wife complains about their boss, for example, they probably aren’t expecting that you elope and beat him up, they only want to vent and want you to listen and behave like you care. There it is. It really isn’t that hard, is it?

And yes, guys, women do have PMS and it’s really all well and good that you laugh about it, but since you have not experienced anything like it, it may be easier for you to just shut up. Honestly, would you like it if your girlfriend chuckled if you got hit in the “family jewels”? Just how would you feel if she told you that “it can’t really hurt that much” or that you are “just using that as an excuse to become a witch”?

Since no woman could ever truly know what that pain is like, it seems kind of odd that any woman should comment on it, right? This holds true for you, guys. Since you have never had to handle “weirdness” (and yes, it’s weird to us too. You don’t think we like going through the pain and also the hormone fluctuations each month?) you most likely should just let it rest be and not discuss it like you fully realize what it is about.

I hope this relationship advice for men helps. If it saves only one relationship between two people who really love (but don’t quite understand) each other, it’s going to be worthwhile!

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