The Comfort Zone



What is this comfort zone anyway? It refers to what you can do easily and what you cannot. You can probably interact with your family without feeling anxiety or fear. What about talking with a beautiful woman? If you are a guy that is shy with women, that will be a stretch for you. That will mean that you had to exit your comfort zone. Since you can’t speak comfortably with beautiful women, you need to exit your comfort zone and make a stretch.

Men who are very good with women usually exit their comfort zone regularly. You need to do the same. Let me tell you about myself a bit. I used to be really shy with women. It took a long time to improve. I had to exit my comfort zone almost every day in order to improve. I needed to stretch my comfort zone a lot if I wanted to become successful with women. It took a lot of time, but my comfort zone is so much bigger than before.

What do you need to do? Are you afraid to approach women? If you are, you don’t want to go and start kissing women in the street. That would be too far of a stretch and it would only discourage from continuing your journey. If you are afraid to approach, you have to start with small steps and slightly enlarge the steps with time.

So, start approaching women and asking them for directions or about anything that seems normal and non threatening. When you get comfortable with that, start asking them about opinions on something. After that, you will start being more direct to them. You will slowly start to give them indirect compliments and before you know it, you will start asking them for numbers and dates.

You need to be doing this continually. Don’t stop. You can always be better than you currently are.

Next, maybe you should check out with some math pickup lines, or do the manly thing and fill out the magic test. Do this and you’ll get a custom analysis to success with women.