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Is there a way that you can be more attractive to women? Yes there is! Just stop being too easy in their company!

Let me clarify this. Imagine the scenario; you are talking to a woman who smiles at you or touches you in conversation. You immediately misread the signals and jump to the conclusion that this woman fancies you. By trying to strike up a rapport and build a relationship straight away you are coming across too easy and subsequently she will lose interest.

Women like to have a challenge. They like to think that they have won you over and got rewarded for their efforts. They most certainly do not want somebody that falls at the first hurdle and is under the thumb from the moment go. This sort of easy action will undoubtedly lose her interest before you have got started.

The secret is to keep her guessing. It is what is called the push – pull method. First you pull her in then you push her away. By being unpredictable like this it is more of a challenge for her to try to win your affection.

This is why women often fall for the jerks in society. These jerks can keep them guessing and are more of a challenge for them.

This does not mean that you have to be a complete out and out jerk in front of women. I do not suggest this at all. That would definitely send her packing within no time at all.

It is just a case of getting the right balance. You can keep a woman guessing and play a little hard to get without being cocky with it. You can give the woman you like a challenge while still indicating that you are accessible if she tries harder.

So the answer to how to be more attractive to women is as simple as do not be too easy!

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